Better you, life, Self love, sex

It’s Time to Come Out!

Hey Lovelies!!!! Ever since I've turned the big 4-0 I've noticed that my confidence has increased and I've become more outgoing. I can go places by myself and have a great time, or hang with my girls and have an even better time! My entire outlook on things have changed and I'm loving the woman… Continue reading It’s Time to Come Out!

Entertainment, life, Lifestyle, Self love

Gemini facts from a Gemini 

Hey Lovelies!  Guess who will be 40 this week? Me!!! Yes I'm turning the big 4-0 and I'm a proud Gem. People have so many opinions about Geminis I thought it would be cool to share some of my traits being that I am a Gem.  I'm very impatient and I hate to be delayed… Continue reading Gemini facts from a Gemini 

Better you, Encouragement, inspiration, life, Motivation, Self love

Alone Vs Lonely 

Hey lovelies,  I was just driving in my car and I thought what is the difference between being alone and being lonely. Me being the person that I  am, I googled the words to see the definitions. Alone is defined as being by yourself. Lonely is defined as feeling sad because you have no one.… Continue reading Alone Vs Lonely 

Encouragement, life, Self love

Choose Yourself 

Hey lovelies,  For the past few days I have been placed in a position where I had to decide to value who I am and honor my worth. It was a hard place to be because in doing so I would have to let something go. In the end I chose my worth and my… Continue reading Choose Yourself 

life, Motivation, Self love

Strong Indepedent Black Woman! 

Growing up and as an young adult I was raised to be independent and strong. I heard things like don't depend on no man, and do what you have to for yourself. It was like a badge of honor to be considered a S.I.B.W. (strong independent black woman).  When my family would give me praise… Continue reading Strong Indepedent Black Woman! 

Body care, Lifestyle, Products, Reviews, Self love

Be Goode Handmade

What's Up People!!!! I had the privilege of trying out some bath products from Be Goode Handmade. Be Goode Handmade is a heath and beauty business that makes handmade bath bombs and scented shea butters. Ayana, the CEO and founder of Be Good Handmade was gracious enough to let me try a bath bomb and… Continue reading Be Goode Handmade

inspiration, life, Motivation, Self love

Adjust 

What's up people! So you know how pastors give a word for the year? They say things like 2017 will be the year of destiny or something like that. Well I feel like my word for 2017 is ADJUST. There is so much going on in my world right now all at one time that… Continue reading Adjust 

Encouragement, inspiration, life, Self love

Own Your Shortcomings 

What's Up People,  So here's the thing I am... Inpatient  Defensive An over thinker (I put too much thought in the smallest things) A little lazy  Indecisive  A loner (I usually don't want to bothered) Extremely cheap  I'm pretty sure there's a lot more but that's what popped in my head. Why am I sharing… Continue reading Own Your Shortcomings 

beauty, black hair, Current events, Encouragement, hair, Hair, beauty, life, self love, inspiration, life, love, Race, Self love

Open Letter to My Sisters with Natural Hair

Hey Sis let's talk, For the past few years I have set back and watched you celebrate your natural hair. I've read your blog posts on why you love being natural. I watched videos of your natural hair journeys from the "big chop" to your now shoulder length hair. All of it has been awesome… Continue reading Open Letter to My Sisters with Natural Hair

Encouragement, life, love, Self love

Checking my Heart: Learning to Pray about How I Feel About Others

My first response when I heard about Carolyn Bryant Donham admitting that she lied about her encounter with Emmit Till,"I have to pray on my spirit". If you're not aware of the story  of Emmit Till was a 14 year old boy that was tortured, mutilated, and drowned in Mississippi in 1955 after being accused… Continue reading Checking my Heart: Learning to Pray about How I Feel About Others