Dating, life, love, relationships

Fake love

What's up people! Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and in the back of your mind you question does this person really want to be with me? For the most part the relationship is good. Your mate tells you they love you and they care about you; yet, their actions say something… Continue reading Fake love

Encouragement, life, love, relationships

Closure After A Breakup 

What's Up People!!! Break ups sucks, believe me I know! I am going through the process now and I have to admit it is emotionally and mentally draining. You try to think about anything else other than the relationship or the now ex. On top of that you're trying to heal and just go on… Continue reading Closure After A Breakup 

beauty, black hair, Current events, Encouragement, hair, Hair, beauty, life, self love, inspiration, life, love, Race, Self love

Open Letter to My Sisters with Natural Hair

Hey Sis let's talk, For the past few years I have set back and watched you celebrate your natural hair. I've read your blog posts on why you love being natural. I watched videos of your natural hair journeys from the "big chop" to your now shoulder length hair. All of it has been awesome… Continue reading Open Letter to My Sisters with Natural Hair

beauty, Dating, Fashion, Fashion, ootd, inspiration, love, Shopping

Valentine’s Day Date Looks

What's up People!!! Valentines's Day is fast approaching and I'm sure a lot of ladies are all thinking the same thing....WHAT AM I GOING TO WEAR!!!!!! I decided to put together a few looks to inspire the bad and bougie in you. Hopefully these looks will push you out of your box, or at least… Continue reading Valentine’s Day Date Looks

Encouragement, life, love, Self love

Checking my Heart: Learning to Pray about How I Feel About Others

My first response when I heard about Carolyn Bryant Donham admitting that she lied about her encounter with Emmit Till,"I have to pray on my spirit". If you're not aware of the story  of Emmit Till was a 14 year old boy that was tortured, mutilated, and drowned in Mississippi in 1955 after being accused… Continue reading Checking my Heart: Learning to Pray about How I Feel About Others

Current events, Encouragement, life, love, Motivation, Self love

Motivation Monday: On this day…..

On this day we celebrate the great Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. I have to ask myself what would we say in the midst of all that is going on today. It feels like people are driven by hate,deception, and selfishness. I know personally each day I'm fighting to keep love in my heart and… Continue reading Motivation Monday: On this day…..

Dating, love, relationships

You Know I Love You

The other day while going to work I overheard a guy tell another guy, "She knows I love her". Immediately I got irritated and thought to myself dude really! It was so frustrating, mainly because me and my guy had just had a disagreement about something very similar to this guys statement: SHE KNOWS I… Continue reading You Know I Love You

Current events, life, love, Religion, sex

Sex and the Church…the Big Taboo

By now I'm sure almost everyone has seen the video of Kim Burrell and her rant  (because that definitely wasn't a sermon) about homosexuality. Watching the video, reminded me of one of the many issues I have with the church today. The church has this strong judgement about sex and sexuality, yet there is so… Continue reading Sex and the Church…the Big Taboo

Encouragement, life, love, Self love

My 40 year old self 

In less than a year, 8 months exactly, I will be turning 40 years old ( God willing). While some people dread getting older I am excited. Although I am not where I completely want to be or planned to be, things are not terrible. I have a decent job, one son in college, another… Continue reading My 40 year old self 

Encouragement, life, love, relationships


So today at work while on lunch the topic of homosexuality came up. I was asked by another co-worker what's my thoughts on homosexuality. This was my response: At this stage in my life I really don't care what other people do. Someone's sexuality has nothing to do with me and my life and how… Continue reading MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS!!!!